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Women Are Generally Stupid, Here's Why:


Hey, got your attention, right.

Actually women are no dumber than men, but anyone ignoring the findings in the book, SEX AT DAWN, is not going to be prepared for today's world.

The book, SEX AT DAWN, explores monogamy and other touchy subjects relating to human sexuality. But if you don't read books, here's a sampling of the 850 reviews on SEX AT DAWN posted at Amazon.com:

"I've never believed that monogamy was natural. It just doesn't make sense to me. If it's natural, then why does it fail so much of the time, even when it has so much cultural support? Every love song and movie reinforces the idea that the ultimate goal is to be in love with one person for the rest of your life, and any urges to do otherwise are unnatural and shameful, and yet we're still cheating on our partners in droves. Sex at Dawn provides some pretty convincing scientific evidence that in our pre-history humans were way more promiscuous than we have previously admitted. Victorian evolutionary biologists conveniently ignored the behavior of the bonobo, one of our closest genetic relatives, who use sex to solve conflicts and create social bonds, instead focusing on the more aggressive chimps for their research. This book asks the question up until now we've been too coy to ask: Is promiscuous sex actually more natural for humans than monogamy? I'm not saying that I think everyone should break up their marriages and become sex-crazed swingers, but it does explain a lot about our current culture if we look at it through this lens. Only time will tell, but I'd bet that science continues to provide more evidence backing up these claims."


"The authors build a powerful case for explaining our humanness. Anyone can force themselves to be monogamous, but our evolution dictates a genetic whisper that leads many people away from this unnatural forced life-long pairing. How many families have been ripped apart because people behaved as their genetics programmed them?"


"The evidence presented in this book and the theories offered by the authors COMPLETELY changed the way I view other humans, our cultures, and history. I have found a greater acceptance of myself and those close to me, and greater satisfaction in my relationships (no matter how fleeting) after having read this book. It was mind-blowing. Many of theories offered explanations to phenomena I have always observed but never questioned. I dare you to find out how it will change you..."


"I don't know which was more refreshing: the evidence-based explanation of the evolutionary biological roots of human sexuality or the exposure of how our cultural taboos have gotten in the way of science with regard to what the author calls the standard narrative of the naturalness of human monogamy."


"First of all, the author does a great job distinguishing opinion from fact, so as to not offend the reading audience. This book will tickle your brain a little bit about everything we've been told was "right" and touch on the true questions you've always wondered... It's a perfect duality on the topic of sex. Brilliantly presented information and a great read for anyone married wondering while they still want to hump everything that walks by. I believe the thoughts in this book will rapidly gain attention as more people are comfortable questioning why we are monogamous. The marriage statistics reflect it, the times are different, psychology is changing, it will be interesting to see where this book pushes society to think when it relates to monogamous relationships."

"An instant classic, this book will completely change the way you view sex and marriage. Christopher does a great job at showing how our current views of marriage are out of touch with who we are as human beings. Highly recommended."

"This is one of the most interesting and helpful books I've read on human sexuality. As a psychologist (and also just as a human being), I've long been dissatisfied with the standard narrative of human sexuality proposed by evolutionary psychology. It seems to miss something important about the complexity of human sexual experience. Enter Sex at Dawn... This book has taken the time to pull together research supporting a much richer, and much different, picture of of the evolution of our sexual selves than most of us have ever been taught. I especially appreciate the accuracy and fairness of the discussion of female sexuality. (Thank you! Thank God, finally, someone doesn't believe that women only have sex to score offspring and paternal investment.)"


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Monogamy was much easier to achieve when people didn't live nearly as long as today, and when the choices for a mate were far more limited due to poor and expensive transportation and communication.



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beach,

Yes, yes, and yes.

"The Peeps ain't so monogamous these days. How ya gonna keep 'em down on the farm once they've seen gay Paris?"

Supporting this idea is that many among both men and woman have "straying eyes." More today are aware of this, as opposed to our older idea that women are happy at home and men stray.

Its easy to find current exploration of the idea that some woman - perhaps many - are scanning for higher status / "quality" men than they now "have."

The label used for this is "hypergomy."

https://www.quora.com/Why-are-most-women-hypergamous

Happily, nobody on either KAI or EV should need any ed on the idea that lots of guys are wired to seek some "strange."

I will be interested to look at this book after seeing posts about it on KAI and now here.
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This is a good article. https://www.quora.com/Why-are-most-women-hypergamous Where can I get a copy of the book?

So, if women trade up while they are bearing children, that's pretty stupid. They're in essence are admitting they picked the wrong guy, and now they're compounding the problem by destabilizing the family unite. No wonder society is so fucked up and no woman ever came up with E=mc^2.

Also, this hypergamous theory also means younger women will go after older men, as long as they're rich or famous.

This article seemed pretty spot on in general, but I would have to read the entire book to really know if the author is full of horse or not. Seems to me most of this hypergamous play is age-dependent and the article doesn't mention anthropologists' findings that both men and women are promiscuous and hypersexual.

Sex before and during childbearing is called "making love" and sex afterwards is called "!@#$." So women's reason for trading up must vary depending on their age and where they are in the child cycle.

If they have had kids, and the kids are raised, I don't see that they would be motivated to trade up for genetics, but more for money security.

If they were so stupid as to marry badly and then divorce -- for something stupid like "he was cheating" -- they screw up the kids worse and they toss themselves out into the market with a less desirable body. So divorce stupid. This is why none of my movie friends ever divorce -- they just stay "married" but do whatever they want. And then there are the tax benefits to just staying "married" and no one in the movie industry really gives a !@#$ who you are !@#$ or "married" to anyway. What's your next project is all that matters.
   
But, if the kids are out of the house and she divorces her man, the only reason for her to trade up would be for money. And I know a lot of women that did exactly that. One woman in fact was trying to trade up to me -- but I rejected her as too much of a bird-brain. Nice ass, but a bird-brain. So what does she do, she snags a neurosurgeon. Now she's trying to nail him down to the marriage contract, but may have gotten cancer in the interim. So !@#$ this universe, it's all evil.

Then I know other women that are over child years and they too are desperately trying to trade up, but for money -- what the call "security." Show them that you have money or real estate and they're all over you. So do you really want to be with a woman that just wants your money?


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Nobody is stupid who has at least average iq . They are just not utilizing their intel
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gence . For emotional reasons
and self deception , they make irrational decisions , as veiwed by logic.


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